Can anyone please tell me what to use to this the grey Tamiya surface primer that comes in the glass bottle.

Indeed, it is quite similar to Mr Surfacer and can be used the same way. However, it seems to dry a little softer than Mr.S.
Another difference is that Tamiya's product is fully soluble in ethyl (denatured) alcohol. This makes it a little easier to use than Mr Surfacer.
It can be applied to a spot or seam, allowed to dry and then can be smoothed and/or cleaned up with a tissue/paper towel moistened with denatured alcohol - no abrasives required, no detail loss/damage to model.![]()
I found just the opposite. Found that it dried faster than Mr Surfacer, and filled gaps better.
Not big gaps mind you, for that I still use a suitable filler, but for regular everyday seams, I found it worked better, just because it didn't shrink as much as Mr. Surfacer. I would use Mr. Surfacer to fill small seams, and when dry, I would have to go over it again with more because it shrunk into the seam rather than filling it. Not so with the Tamiya product.
Also, despite the cover in the bottle of Mr. Surfacer, I find it dries out badly. Yes you can add more lacquer thinner to it to thin it back out, but never seems to be the same again, and ends up being gooey and not very forgiving. Haven't had that with the Tamiya product (yet). It will separate from it's carrier, but a quick stir and it is as good as new, also smells better.
I found just the opposite. Found that it dried faster than Mr Surfacer, and filled gaps better.
Not big gaps mind you, for that I still use a suitable filler, but for regular everyday seams, I found it worked better, just because it didn't shrink as much as Mr. Surfacer. I would use Mr. Surfacer to fill small seams, and when dry, I would have to go over it again with more because it shrunk into the seam rather than filling it. Not so with the Tamiya product.
Also, despite the cover in the bottle of Mr. Surfacer, I find it dries out badly. Yes you can add more lacquer thinner to it to thin it back out, but never seems to be the same again, and ends up being gooey and not very forgiving. Haven't had that with the Tamiya product (yet). It will separate from it's carrier, but a quick stir and it is as good as new, also smells better.
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