Ian, I agree with JA, you're not going to be able to lighten black oil with a filter, but it's also right that the advantage of having used oil is that you should still be able to adjust it, unless it's been dry for a long time, or you've subsequently sealed over it. You may not want to remove it completely, but try blending it or softening it, first perhaps with a completely dry clean brush (not too small... 3 - 5?). Or to get more blending power or to remove some it, just moisten the tip of the brush with thinners, wipe it once or twice on a towel, then carefully work on the bits you want to lessen, or remove, or blend. Do little at a time, work at the edges, keep checking it... If it gets too wet with thinners, blow on it or warm it a little to dry it off a bit... It's all about getting the paint at the right point where it will do what you want it to do.
Remember also that it's not always necessary to brush in a direction, try just touching the brush to the surface so that you're getting a more stippled dotty effect, and you're not spreading it further.
If this oil is on top of a solid base colour, you could also try using some of the base colour back on top... Needs a subtle approach to avoid looking like it's just been painted over though - go for the approach above first though, reworking the black, and maybe work a tiny bit of very dark brown in?