I'm on my second model after being away from the hobby for many, many years and have to learn all the nice stuff that's available now.

So, what I've done so far is:
* Vallejo acrylic base coat
* Tamiya acrylic camouflage (yellow, green brown)
* Vallejo acrylic gloss coat
I've understood that gloss coating is done in order to protect the underlying colors from the washes and weathering process, so that's why I added that coat. But it looks so shiny and it's so darn slippery now! I will add a final matte coat at the end, and I hope it gets rid of the super shine.
But the problem is the washes. I have Tamiya's brown enamel wash as well as Vallejo's brown wash. I've only tried Tamiya's enamel wash so far as it's supposed to work well over an acrylic base. The wash itself looks like I've seen washes look, i.e. very thin. When I apply the wash to a bolt or a panel seam the wash is simply sucked off the brush and more or less vanishes. The capillary force sucks the wash away and it gets applied really nicely. The problem is that it's totally invisible! I've applied a lot to some test panels and I have no idea where it goes. It fills the seams for a while and then seems to disappear. No, there are no holes that would lead inside the tank. If I want to have any form of depth/shadow effect with this wash I'll have to dip the tank in the wash or just pour over spoonfuls of it.
Videos I've seen on Youtube have the wash behave physically in a similar way, i.e. the wash flows nicely along panels and bolts, but in the videos the wash also leaves some form of color and there's usually some residue that needs to be cleaned up later. This leaves very little. Anything obvious that I've done wrong?
I have thought about getting some artist oil paints and thin them out and try instead, but I'd like to know what in my process or choice of colors that is wrong so far. Is Tamiya's wash simply not good. I'll try Vallejo's tomorrow, but I'm a bit sceptical about a acrylic wash over acrylic paints, especially if I have to do some cleaning with thinner.
Any hints for a total newbie?