Well, here I am again with a bit more time to spend.
Dutch outside walls are at least the width of a brick and that is 5 cm. Most of the time our walls are the length of a brick + the width of a brick = 20cm + 5cm thick, because we are used to building outside walls with bricks. Modern houses have two brick walls, one on the inside and one on the outside of the house. In between is the insulation material like glasswool, rockwool etc.
Older houses tend to have only one, thicker wall. The picure shows what I try to say.

When you build a WWII Dutch house, it is safe to calculate with a wall that is about 15 - 20 cm thick.
Doors these days are 210 cm (height) x 90 cm (width) x 5 cm(thick). Older doors are a bit higher (220 cm), but there width and thickness is almost the same.
Windows come in very different sizes, varying from very large to very small. The only way to calculate their size, is to compare a window on a picture with a figure on that picture. Too many different sizes to give standard measures.
The door I made, was 1mm sheet and the panels are made of 0.5 mm sheet. In total that is 1.5mm. You can easily do this with two layers of balsa and then sand off the excess.
I hope this answered some of you questions. If there are more questions to be answered, then just let me know.