Oberst:
I'll defer to Ken's expertise regarding all painting issues, because he does beautiful work.
However, for my own two cents, (and I'm no pro), but I pretty much use my air brush from base coat through the final stage of weathering, (I use washes also, and do some brush highlighting).
I model strictly armor and softskin vehicles and I've found within a few minutes of applying my final weathering, I tie it all together with a quick wash of Model Master Acryl Thinner right out of the bottle over the entire vehicle, (applied with a soft brush). This seems to soften and blend everything together.
It works for me.