At last ..... mature modellers!!
I have to agree ......... please yourself and after that .... its your hobby. Everybody has their own taste and preferences and I respect that .......so if add-ons is your game thats OK too.
But the one thing that annoys me slightly, is adding on just to impress. I have seen build ups where guys have listed no less than 10 different aftermarket addons ... tracks, barrells, PE, decals, turret, interior, correct exhaust, figures, etc, etc, and in my opinion have turned out what I think, is a very average model. On the other hand I have seen a basic kit built from the box, and I stare and stare in admireation at it. To me, thats what modelling is about, not putting together an expensive jig-saw of parts. This is not a rule as there people who can pull it off ... ie; Twig to name just one...... have you seen this tiger????
I really enjoy what i do ... whether its good or bad, right or wrong. I spent the last 4 months trying to finish up old models that I had started in the hope I could practice different techniques and improve on what I can do today. This was a good experience as I was working on kits I started maybe 18 months ago and was easily able to see things I can do better now. They are finished, not perfect but I like them anyway. Im proud to have them and feel like Ive achieved something.
As far as rivet counting goes ...... I couldnt give a toss. If it looks good to me, then it is good.