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One rule to live by, if you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all.
On the other side if you post something, don't expect everyone to agree with what you typed. If a comment irks you, drink a cup of cement and harden up. Remember, the 'x' in the top right hand corner of the screen can get you out of any argument before it begins.
That's not the best analogy.
Someone says that, I counter with "how do I fix it?"
Hardening up implies digging in and defending a position at all costs as opposed to being open to other ideas and opinions and the simple fact that you
may not be rightNo one is perfect. The biggest man is the one who can admit he's wrong and learn from that error. Not the guy who grimaces and insists he's right despite evidence to the contrary.
Be open to criticism. But criticism has to be constructive. It's not enough to lead with the positive, the negative should be phrased in how to improve the work and even where to find the techniques and knowledge on how to get better.
I read and comment on works where the creator feels they have poured intonit their very soul. So everything is how to improve. So tempting to say it sucks. That helps no one.
And often it's praise in public and critique in private. Boards have private message feature. You really want to do a detailed critique? Do it in private and put in everything you know about how to get better, not just what is wrong.
I remember years ago when I was starting and then restarting my various efforts and I got savaged. But it always had how to get better. You're weak in framing panels. Here's a tutorial. Here's a place to find a better font and so forth. ( I use the webcomic example because I can't remember all the advice I got while model building!)
There's a lot of great advice appearing on this site daily. That's why I read it so much. I've been building models for 40 plus years and there's still things to learn or better ways to try to do something.
Be open to learning because it never stops so long as you're willing to pay attention.