Delbert, I hate to tell you this, but Red4 is correct (Nice catch for a treadhead, Matt!

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The rudder is the thing on the tail, it controls Yaw or side to side motion.
The flaps are on the inboard section of the wings, they create lift for the aircraft at slower speeds.
The Ailerons are on the outboard section of the wings, they control roll around the center axis (length of the fuselage).
The thing on the horizontal surface of the tail is the elevator, it controls pitch or up-and-down movement.
The Ailerons must act in opposition of eachother. For instance, when the right aileron is up and the left aileron is down, the aircraft will bank, or roll, to the right. If the rudder is pushed to the right during this maneuver, the A/C will turn to the right. Activating the rudder with ailerons level will create a condition called 'slip' which can make a novice pilot need to change his shorts

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O.K. more info than required. point is, ailerons (on outboard aft of wings) should be in opposition-one up, one down.
HTH
RobH